Using my simple 10-steps, you can make yourself more than just noticeable -- you can transform yourself into someone who is IRRESISTIBLY APPROACHABLE to the opposite sex. I know that it can be scary and sometimes it seems much easier to stay in your protected little bubble, but the reward you stand to gain is definitely worth taking the risk. You know the phrase "take PRIDE in your appearance?
" Well, when you're proud of how you look, your posture will straighten up, you'll feel more confident, and you'll be much more likely to make eye contact, smile, and possibly even strike up a conversation with someone new. They stride very quickly, head down, eyes on the ground (or anywhere that will prevent them from making eye contact of any kind), and plow through anyone and anything in their way to get to their destination as quickly and directly as possible.
"If you can relate, I have good news: You are not inherently invisible. If you really want to get someone’s attention, you might need to step up your style a notch... I recommend wearing a colorful and flattering outfit not just because you'll turn heads (though you WILL), but because of the way it will make YOU feel.
The world is not divided into two groups of people: the naturally magnetic eye-catchers and the wallflowers who are destined to blend into the background. First things first..can't attract someone special if they can’t find you, so you've got to pry yourself away from those "House" reruns and get out into the world. When you look your best, it changes your whole demeanor.
I think everyone feels a little uneasy and off-balance when they're around those handful of people who just seem to have everything going for them.
They may be really outgoing as well, which can add in all the problems from the point above.
Some socially awkward types have the problem of being a bit too uneasy around certain types of people.
I am a little on the shy side, but I don't think I'm arrogant in any way.
My friend and I are always laughing about something, so I do smile a lot; but since...
): Pick a song with an upbeat theme and a good, moderate beat. Load it onto your i Pod and take it with you for a "practice walk." Walk to the beat (this is subtle- you're not DANCING, you're just getting a good pace to your steps), breathe, enjoy the lyrics, think positive thoughts, and smile.
is widely regarded as one of the most intimidating atmospheres in college football. A Louisiana state financing panel gave final approval on Thursday to proceed with the expansion to the end zones of Tiger Stadium, which is also known as "Death Valley," according to the Associated Press.